Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, April 9, 2012

Love is in the Air!

I have very exciting news on the home-front: My beautiful, wonderful, amazing, exuberant, magnificent (ok, I think you get the picture) mother announced that she is getting remarried!  It caught a lot of us by surprise, considering they've only been dating for a short period of time, but as it's been said before: When you know, you know.  So that being said, I am over the moon with excitement.  Just the thought of going wedding dress shopping for my mom gives me butterflies beyond belief.  She so deserves the love of a good man and has been patient over the past 12 years.  I always knew in my heart she would find what she was looking for.  So, it looks like they are planning for a mid-summer wedding.  I can't wait to hear how the details pan out.

We enjoyed a nice "engagement dinner" at Stone Creek Dining in Greenwood.  I enjoyed a wonderful dish of Pan Seared Scallops over Sweet Potato, Andouille Sausage Risotto and topped with a Watercress Citrus Salad - divine!  


I loved seeing my brother and his family.  It is crazy how much my niece and nephew have sprouted over the past couple months.
My grandmother also got to join in with the celebration.   Love that woman!!

As my BFF always used to say, "I love LOVE!" and I couldn't agree more.  I am surrounded by the most amazing, loving people and it is the best feeling in the world.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

New Year, New Additions! Our Newest Dog LUNA

2012 is rolling through with ease.  I have a renewed sense of energy (possibly just caused by an extreme case of caffeine jitters), a zest for getting back in the kitchen, and a larger family!!

I want to take a moment to introduce you to the newest addition to our family: LUNA!

Hello, sweet girl! Wish my dirty sneakers weren't in the background, grsh!
D and I had been contemplating expanding our starter family for months now.  Little Miss B seemed depressed and between our busy work schedules and (let's be honest) laziness, she wasn't getting the proper  exercise that she needed.  When we lived downtown we always said, when we get a house with a fenced in yard, we'll look into getting a second dog.  Then when we moved into our new home we started focusing on projects and the 2nd dog idea got pushed to the side.  Now, several months in, many of our projects have been checked off our list so we decided to look into it again.

Between D and I, we put in some serious man-hours surfing the web and looking at the local shelter websites.  I focused most of my energy on Indianapolis Animal Control.  They are filled to the brim with cats and dogs and sadly, they appear to be a fairly high-kill shelter (none of the animals seemed to have an intake date longer than a few months).  Because of this, their adoption fees are only $60 compared to the $125+ we'd seen elsewhere.

I went there on 4 separate occasions, both with and without D and Little Miss B to scope out the prospects.  It is so insanely sad walking through Doggie Death Row.  So many of these animals seem like they'd be the perfect Best Friend for any family while others look like they have lost hope and know their fate.  I could never work there because you'd eventually see me on an episode of Animal Hoarders.  I have to give many thanks and much admiration to the workers and volunteers that dedicate themselves to such a stressful and, oftentimes, tragic job.

Over the weekend, I finally convinced D to come look at some of the dogs I'd previously looked at.  We drove over there and I had him go walk through the kennels and narrow down the ones he liked to introduce to B.  The shelter staff member brought at 3 dogs out, one at a time, for a more personal meet and greet.  Although B seemed to get along with all of them, there just weren't *SPARKS*.  B seemed a bit overwhelmed and just plain over it when our final candidate was brought out.  Talk about saving the best for last.  She was a brilliantly, brindle-colored, one year old mutt, slightly bigger than B but similar in build.  They immediately hit it off, playfully romping around together outside.  Neither one had their hackles (we learned that's what the hairs on dogs' necks and spines are called) raised and they seemed to really enjoy themselves.  It was pretty much love at first sight for all parties involved so after lots of paperwork and a little bit of lecturing on how to integrate the new dog into our house, the four of us packed into my car and made our way home.

Transitioning a new dog into a household is a little nerve-wracking, especially when B has been our sole little princess for a while now.  I tried to listen to all the words of wisdom I've acquired from Cesar Millan over the years. Think: CALM ENERGY!

We've taken all the necessary precautions: separate food bowls and eating spaces, supervised play for the first few days, close observation of any aggressive behavior.  I couldn't have asked for a better circumstance between Luna and B.  The only sad part is that B is the submissive of the two dogs, which I had previously observed from taking her to the Broad Ripple Dog Park.  Luna is top dog: she decides which bed to sleep on; she enters/exits the house first; she herds B where she wants her.  It's just natural for dogs to assume their roles so we can't force nature.


Sisters!
Sleepy after some major playtime!
End of Day 1 (Thanks, D for this lovely picture)  This is seriously where I fell asleep


So, so far, so good.  Luna has only had one accident in the house (Day 1).  She is the biggest cuddler and the sloppiest kisser.  She has even managed to muscle and pout her way into sleeping in our bed (although we might have to nip that in the bud soon because she is a space-hogger).  FYI: 2 humans and 2 dogs in one queen-sized bed is a recipe for disaster and a guaranteed sleepless night.  That being said, I think D and I made the perfect choice.  I look forward to many rewarding and fulfilled years with, both, Little Miss B and Luna Girl!

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT IF YOU ARE THINKING OF GETTING A DOG OR A SECOND DOG, ALWAYS LOOK TO THE SHELTERS FIRST.  THESE DOGS ARE THE PERFECT COMPANIONS TO ANYONE.  PUPPY MILLS ARE THE SOURCE OF SO MANY PET STORES AND BREEDERS.  FYI, INDIANA HAS A SCARY-HIGH AMOUNT OF ILLEGAL, INHUMANE PUPPY  MILLS.  FORGIVE MY SERIOUSNESS BUT THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM THAT CAN BE CONTROLLED AND STOPPED BY PEOPLE DOING THE RIGHT THING.  

One more thing, in the famous last words of Bob Barker:


"DON'T FORGET TO SPAY AND NEUTER YOUR PETS"

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

The Ultimate Procrastinator: Happy 2012!!! (...4 Days In)

O-M-G! I am beyond disbelief that it is 2012! I'm officially 10 years out of high school and certainly not where I pictured myself, as a naive eighteen year old (definitely not a bad thing).  I have a feeling that 2012 is going to be pivotal and positive!  I am not a big fan of resolutions because, like the other 99% of the population, I have a difficult time keeping them.  My "goal" for this year are to refocus on my little, insignificant blog and take it more seriously (i.e. consistent weekly posts, custom domain name, emphasis on proper photography, utilizing social media to the fullest).  

That being said, I'd like to show you a little recap of my holiday season....
  • It started with our beautiful gold and silver tree!  This was our first Christmas in the new house and we became all too aware of the fact that we are grown ups now.

Where are all the presents?

Silver and Gold!

  •  Football...lots and lots of football (and several a few tears)

Blue Crew Tailgate



  • I ate some insanely good food that, to my dismay, is starting to pop up in undesired places.  I need to remember: JAMAICA in August, JAMAICA in August, JAMAICA IN AUGUST!
Girls' Night Out at...
Sapporo in Castleton!
    Date night hibachi at...
Kabuto's on the south side
- Thanks to my awesome brother and sister-in-law's Christmas gift card, D and I had a kick ass meal at Bonefish Grill off of 86th Street.  Bacon Wrapped Scallops, Asian Glazed Sea bass, Filet Mignon & Crab cakes (my mouth is watering just thinking about it)

- I also recently tried 10-01 in Broad Ripple with *Fefe.  I love the downstairs lounge/bar.  I only nibbled on soup and salad and tried one of their seasonal ambers.  I'm definitely looking forward to returning to trial their full menu and beer list.

- FYI Devour Downtown starts in 5 days!!!
  • And most importantly, I had such an amazing time immersing myself with my wonderful family... 
My adorable niece
My grandmother trying desperately to hold up my niece
My brother and beautiful mother
My wild man of a nephew

...and friends
Rock Lobster!
NYE!
and D!...
3...2...1! Happy New Year!




Sunday, May 8, 2011

Happy Mother's Day!!!

Dear Mom:

You are the best mother a girl could ask for.  I admire everything about you: your class, your professionalism, your unwavering love for your family.  You are such a blessing in my life and the best part is that you chose me or maybe it was divine intervention.

Love,

Your daughter

My beautiful mother circa 1974

Friday, April 1, 2011

What I'm Eating + TGIF

Happy Friday!!!!!

Although I woke up a little later than I had hoped for, I still managed to give myself enough time to pack a lunch for work and make smoothies for D and I.  I'm out of frozen peaches which are my go-to smoothie ingredient so I decided to use the frozen blueberries which I usually only eat with cottage cheese and honey.  This is a simple yet satisfyingly filling recipe that is packed full of good-for-you carbs and not a ton of sugar.  Beware, this is not for the carb-a-phobics.  I add a generous serving of chunky (for texture) peanut butter as well as oatmeal for sustenance.  HERE'S THE FULL RECIPE.  I think almost any fruit mixed with banana and peanut butter are a no-fail.  It's the perfect portion for me to finish on my drive to work and my appetite is suppressed until lunch time.  I always tape a little note on the back door for D when I make smoothies to let him know to grab his on the way out and usually a special message for good measure.

Sadly, D is going up North this weekend to visit with his family.  It's okay though.  I have family coming in town too plus other plans with friends so I will be preoccupied with that.  Tonight is First Friday @ The Wheeler Arts Center.  I am doing wedding stuff with The Bride during the day tomorrow and then later, my cousin Courtney's 30th  surprise party is (during the Butler game, big sad face ) at Bravo.  Hopefully we move the party to a nearby bar after dinner to try and catch the second half.  Busy weekend but I'm powered up and ready for it    

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Crossing my fingers and taking a leap of faith

I have been "blogging" off and on for almost a year now but it has only served as a private, online journal.  I've decided to move into a public forum.  Who knows if anyone will ever read this besides me but I don't really care.  I'm challenging myself to expand my horizons, gain inspiration from others and expose others to everything I love; maybe a few things I don't. 

This past year has been one of the most transformational times of my life.  It was truly like shedding of a cocoon and stretching my wings for the first time.  I've put away my childish ways and embraced the wonderful gifts that I have been given.  I might copy some previous posts from my private blog to save time and get this one up to speed.